Life is back

My hubby who was away for 8 days is back. He came back last Sunday night but was down with flu. I can imagine how shack he must have been cos this trip is definitely no holiday. Its like a celebration of the birthday of the Prophet so most of the places they visit is the 'makam' in the remote places of Surabaya. The travelling time is long and hard. So he is really sick due to lethargic. But so happy that he is back.
SYF for the girls are also over. Hafiza had her band performance last Monday and Nadia had her dance on Tuesday. Finally.. now at least can focus on coming exams.
What I learnt in the absence of my hubby:
1. People who care for you will make effort to call you just to find out how you and the kids are doing and I really appreciate these ple. They are of course my mum, my niece through MSN, my sister and also my sis-in law Kak Mah. Thank u. The rest if you tell me that even if u did not call ...but we are in your doa...mmm..... wtever... Actually no diff whether ple call or not.
2. I can manage well without my hubby; can cope with routine and manage the kids well..but emotionally not strong enough to handle his absence. I realise that I reach the peak of missing him especially after the third day. Amazingly after the 4th day time flies and soon it just a matter of time before he is back.
3. Need him to drive around to get things for the kids like going to Bras Basah. Funny .. got lost along the way. But still manage to reach there after a few turns..
4. I hate it when its a long weekend and he is not around. So must keep ourselves occupied. Luckily my niece has her open house so we were busily occupied with event for the day.
5. Finally my hubby tell me that wtever that happens ' ada hikmahnya'. Meaning every cloud has a silver lining.
Today a fren told me of a good news.... I'm so happy for her... finally the day that she has been waiting for is here.. she's going to be a MOTHER. Congrats....
I pray that such good things be passed around and others next to her will soon received such gd tidings too..