A Little Village called Pelegong

I have bn fortunate to be part of the team of teachers and students to experience the kampong life of Pelegong, a little village in Negri Sembilan one of the states in M'sia. There are no words to describe the humbleness of the villagers and to be showered with their hospitality. Just 3 days and 2 nites but so much lesson learnt in just 2 days. What they hv in wealth is not displayed as normally seen in the rich and famous but shadowed by their humble attitude. What they display was the wealth of warmth and sincerity to accept us as part of them. And the wonderful team that I was with plus an enriching experience.

This is one of the villagers who created an impression on me when we went house visiting. He had travelled far and wide Germany, London you name it. He speaks 'great' English.














They are so cute. Handsome and sweet.The little girl is Nabilah. So pretty that one of our boys was only willing to be a groom if she is the bride to a 'fake' wedding. Since she is too young, had to make do with these 'fake' couple.








Remember the the show the 'Wedding Singer'. These are our version of wedding performers.











The supposedly '1 km' walk which is more like 10 km with the uphill and downhill to go to the 'jeram' which is a little ..very little waterfall.

Interesting read

An interesting article.....

LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOUR COMPANY WILL STOP LOVING YOU

A speech delivered by a CEO of a premier IT company of India during an employee session. He is incidentally, one of the top 50 Influential people of Asia according the latest Asiaweek publication and also the new IT Advisor to the Thailand Prime Minister.

Extract of Mr. Narayana Murthy's Speech during Mentor Session:

LOVE YOUR JOB, BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY BECAUSE
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN YOUR COMPANY WILL STOP LOVING YOU


Narayana Murthy :

I know people who work 12 hours a day, six days a week, or more. Some people do so because of a work emergency where the long hours are only temporary.
Other people I know have put in these hours for years!!! I don't know if they are working all these hours, but I do know they are in the office this long. Others put in long office hours because they are addicted to the workplace.

Whatever the reason for putting in overtime, working long hours over the long term is harmful to the person and to the organization. There are things managers can do to change this for everyone's benefit. Being in the office long hours, over long periods of time, makes way for potential errors.

My colleagues who are in the office long hours frequently make mistakes caused by fatigue.

Correcting these mistakes requires their time as well as the time and energy of others. I have seen people work Tuesday through Friday to correct mistakes made after 5 PM on Monday.

Another problem is that people who are in the office long hours are NOT pleasant company.

They often complain about other people (who aren't working as hard) ; they are irritable, or cranky, or even angry. Other people avoid them. Such behaviour poses problems, where work goes much better when people work together instead of avoiding one another. As Managers, there are things we can do to help people leave the office. First and foremost is to set the example and go home ourselves. "


They often complain about other people (who aren't working as hard) ; they are irritable, or cranky, or even angry. Other people avoid them. Such behaviour poses problems, where work goes much better when people work together instead of avoiding one another.

As Managers, there are things we can do to help people leave the office.

First and foremost is to set the example and go home ourselves.
I work with a manager who chides people for working long hours. His words quickly lose their meaning when he sends these chiding group e-mails with a time-stamp of 2 AM, Sunday.

Second is to encourage people to put some BALANCE in their lives. For instance, here is a guideline I find helpful:

1) Wake up, eat a good breakfast, and go to work.
2) Work hard and smart for eight or nine hours.
3) Go home.
4) Read the books/comics, watch a funny movie, dig in the dirt, play with (your) kids, etc.
5) Eat well and sleep well.

This is called recreating. Doing steps 1, 3, 4, and 5 enable step 2.

Working regular hours and recreating daily are simple concepts. They are hard for some of us because that requires 'personal change'. They are possible since we all have the power to choose to do them.

In considering the issue of overtime, I am reminded of my oldest son. When he was a toddler, if people were visiting the apartment, he would not fall asleep no matter how long the visit, and no matter what time of day it was. He would fight off sleep until the visitors left. It was as if he was afraid that he would miss something. Once our visitors' left, he would go to sleep.

By this time, however, he was over tired and would scream through half the night with nightmares. He, my wife, and I, all paid the price for his fear of missing out.

Perhaps some people put in such long hours because they don't want to miss anything when they leave the office. The trouble with this is
will NEVER stop happening.

That is life !! Things happen 24 hours a day.

Allowing for little rest is not ultimately practical. So, take a nap.

Things will happen while you're asleep, but you will have the energy to catch up when you wake. Hence "LOVE YOUR JOB BUT NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR COMPANY"

Live a life like you should - ...

Effort is important, but knowing where to make an effort in your life makes all the difference. ..

If a drop of water falls in a lake there is no identity.But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it will shine like a pearl...so choose the best place where you would shine...

..Falling down is not a defeat...defeat is when your refuse to get up...

..Never take some one for granted...Hold every person close to your heart, because you might wake up one day and realise that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones." Remember these always in life ;

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As I read this article, I ponder on how much truth there is in it. Not ALL but at least I see some of it. I had to face of of these people who became unpleasant when they are tired and when things don't work out their way.

Really interesting and good to reflect on our work habits.

Last week

O levels will be starting soon. Next Monday to be exact. But this is the first time that it started when the school is still operating. So the exams wil be in the afternoon. We the whole school wil be cleared by 1pm. Sounds great on paper. But in reality even when school has bn dismissed, I will still be around clearing work work and work. These days I feel so tired and sleepy. My sis from KL was around and we hd bn going out almost everyday and coming back late almost everyday too. That cld be the reason why I feel so tired. Lack of sleep. At the same time during the first few days of Hari Raya I was furiously trying to finish marking the exam scripts for my sec 3 classes. First time in my Hari Raya jalan, I brought along these scripts and mark wherever and whenever I cld. Furious and disappointed at some of the answers that were written by the students or practically blank pages by those who simply refuse to do their part.Like I say, true enough there were no one deserving of a B&J ice cream. I 'sooooo look forward' to 2008 when I had to do the coursework with them again. But I'm planning to make these ple come back the first two weeks during the sch. holidays. Cant wait to see the number who wld actually come. My life is so exciting..
Lately I hv been bombarded with not one, not two but three shocking news wrt next year's workplan. I feel so .. actually just lost for words. I really am trying to make adjustments after these news were related to me by the P. Sometimes I wonder how ple think and whether they realise the implications of their decisions on ple around them. And I'm supposed to understand and respect their decision. Give them my support. I'm so torn. I dont want to think abt it. But I hv to think abt it cos I need to make a decision. Lost...
Aniwaes, HariRaya has bn good. Loads of patching up esp on the hubby side. Cos there were jus too much drama happening. Unnecesary drama but things happen in life. But I find it wierd though that after so long finally someone came to his senses. How long will it last? Not sure but wtever it is I will always try to remain objective and not to come into the picture. After all I'm only an outlaw. Mesti tau bawa diri.

7 days and counting

Exactly a week b4 Hari Raya. Wt hv I done to prepare for this big occassion- NOTHING. Everybody in the hse very slack abt this. Busy with own target. Exams for some. Work for others. And just soccer for one.
I've bn busy with the sec 3 coursework. I've got NO life. I finish my cw for graduating class, now I mark cw for my sec 3. My life is filled with jus coursework. I gave class test for my sec3 and the results were not very encouraging. While I do see a notch of improvement in the test marks, some have bn able to sustain their std of achieving a single digit in every test. Yet they argue over a 1 mark difference. When I scolded them for getting 4 for my test they argued that they did not get 4 BUT 5. Such a great difference. I dangle a 'carrot' in front of them jus to get them to study for the exam.If they can pass I give them a BEN & JERRY's ice cream. But after marking their test, I can safely say that I can keep my money. Really don't think that I will be buying any B&J for them. Maybe for me. Every nite I mark the CW. I think I deserve the B&J.
I want to spend some time doing things for Hari Raya but I got no strength. Everyday I wake up at 3.45am then sleep again at 4.30 am. Then wake up again at 6 am. Try to extend my sleeping time and to get as much shut eye as possible. So very tiring to hv to keep my eyes open during the day especially after 2pm.
I want to do something for Hari Raya so that I can get the feel for the occassion. I look at the hse, so much to do. Everybody knows there's so much to do yet nobody is moving to get it done.
Today someone ask me if I've started doing my hari raya cakes. I said of course. Everynite I make the layered cake-every layer of the cw I mark and flip...mark and flip. Thats my KEK Lapis.
Lame rt.When I say I want to buy from Raja Kuih, they say NO LAH. Not NiceLAh. Blah Blah.. I'm so tired just thinking abt it.